Shitty men are one thing. There are also women who uphold this whole hegemon because they sickeningly believe this is how things should be, or they're only willing to write off godawful behavior like this when it's their side (given how the media has treated you and Tara Reade, compared to the women who've accused Republican lawmakers.)
The latter is so much worse because they think they're these YAS QUEEN progressives but are really just holding women back and encouraging harassment and toxicity in other environments.
I believe you and I'm sorry you've been through this. I hope Cuomo gets recalled.